The Origin of A**holes

I just don't understand why some people have to be assholes. I envy their consistency sometimes on how they can move you big time with their simple words or actions. It's amazing that you don't even see them exerting effort to mess with you. Really, been thinking about it, how do they multiply? Anywhere you go, one or two of their kind follow you. Their like shadows that you can never can get rid of, a very sophisticated shadow that glows in the dark, isn't that cute!

Anyway, I bumped with this type of human form at work. Though the collision wasn't really that hard it was enough for me to be sent to our OM for a talk. Her first question was, "Is there a problem with your RS?". Apparently they call him RS which stands for Resolution Specialist, but not to me as he f*cks up almost everything. He comes up too strong, a too-proud type of person that you would think has been in position for quite awhile. But guess what? He is just a starter, amazing right? Sometimes I ask my self if it's just me or maybe I'm new and I don't know him so well so I have to give a time to get along with. Then I found out that my colleagues are also having issues with him. I know it's not enough for me or us to judge him but whatever he is doing, it's not just so healthy. I don't know what he is trying to prove. Though he seems smart, in some ways (maybe), but most of the time, he is just really an asshole. I'm sorry can't think of any lighter words. I can't use stronger words than that here hehehe.

But we can't just keep people like these tormenting us everyday. I mean it's not that we need to fight back physically or to answer them back (though I did twice). We need to find a shield that wont let him enjoy whatever his doing. What I'm doing (as of the moment) which I know sometimes don't work 'coz there are times it becomes too unbearable, I just ignore him . Ignore his ways of making me feel so small, idiot, or whatever words that associate with making you so insignificant, I think "belittling" is the exact word. He does that unfortunately. But what's funny about it the more he does that the more he appears to be less-capable or dumber to me . I guess that's why people wear badge visibly to let other know that their strong, smart, but deep inside they feel incompetent (I can justify how he appears to be like, but that's not the point I'm arriving at) and I think that's where asshole originated from. They can't just level with you in some ways, too bad!

So that is just my own view on that matter. I know we tend be assholes ourselves to anyone but making it a hobby 'coz you are really enjoying it, that's already something else. But let's not forget that people do change and who knows some of these assholes will become your best buddy, though it's kinda difficult with the person that I'm talking about but still possible and I wanna hold on to that possibility (fingers crossed). Blessed afternoon to everyone!